She's still very young both mentally and emotionally, so I'd suggest positive reinforcement and try to practice it out of her over a period of time. There's not much that confidence can't overcome. Make it fun, keep the mind active with competitive challenges along the way. As she progresses, she'll experience all the those little bumps and bruises that come with the territory. I'd bet that she'll grow out of it without either of you even realizing it.
Or, maybe she becomes the team's...catcher.
Chris
It would floor me If she decided to dip Into catching. Right now her heart beats for 2B, she likes SS as well. The past 6 months she has decided she really wants to learn how to pitch. We have let her take a couple private lessons and go to a pitching camp to get her feet wet. I tried to learn some of It myself and I quickly realized I am not as coordinated as I used to be. lol Those girls who can pitch really don't get enough credit, It Is extremely hard just to get the proper motion down, at least It Is for me. If everything goes well we are going to try to ramp up her pitching lessons this year. You can never have enough tools In the bag.