Need some advice. Help coach my daughter's team. 12u but mostly first year players. DD is in the middle of the pack. #2 pitcher. Could be at the top skill wise, but has no aggression. She says she is going hard, but it is obvious to everyone watching that she isn't. Some of it is fear when balls are hit hard, but she is not scared in the circle. I try to tell her that even though she catches as many balls as other girls, her misses look worse because it looks like she is lazy. Some practices she throws nearly as hard as the #1 and others she looks 10 mph slower. She says she thinks she is going hard. I don't want to be THAT dad that stays on her because she really enjoys practicing and playing. I know time on the bench may be the only thing that convinces her to go harder, but it may also take away the enjoyment and get her to not want to play. Again, i would consider her in top half of team in talent, but her "get after it" is not up to par. Any suggestions?