I am definitely that dad. I have called pitches from the stands when the coach wasn't. I did this for the first 2 tournaments in all stars. We took second in the first tourney and won the second. Third tounament I didn't call a pitch. Dd asked after the first game if I was going to help her. I told her she knows how to pitch and if the coach doesn't call the pitch she should decide one her own. She had a great tourney, we won again and now I know it isn't me that wins it it is her and her teammates that win them. This year she has decided to play travel and I hope I don't go back to my old ways.