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And the losers lose because the thought of losing isn't hateful enough? Mark Grace said, "If you're not cheating, you're not trying." Some people take that as gospel, too.
What do you want to teach? I want to teach responsibility, aspiration, perseverance, alertness, accomplishment, positive thinking. I don't want to teach shame, and fear of failure. Nor do I want to teach empty bravado. The Patton quote is a bit ironic, now that the Olympics are on. We see the joy of winners, and the pain of the losers. Who among us cannot feel sympathy for the athlete who has given his or her best, and simply been beaten? We see that while the best Americans do win quite a bit, winning is not uniquely American. Yes, a gold medal is worth much more than a silver, but are we really not going to tolerate any of our splendid, dedicated, young countrymen/women because they lost? Is that really American? I certainly hope not. How about Michael Jordan's take:
"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
What do you want to teach? I want to teach responsibility, aspiration, perseverance, alertness, accomplishment, positive thinking. I don't want to teach shame, and fear of failure. Nor do I want to teach empty bravado. The Patton quote is a bit ironic, now that the Olympics are on. We see the joy of winners, and the pain of the losers. Who among us cannot feel sympathy for the athlete who has given his or her best, and simply been beaten? We see that while the best Americans do win quite a bit, winning is not uniquely American. Yes, a gold medal is worth much more than a silver, but are we really not going to tolerate any of our splendid, dedicated, young countrymen/women because they lost? Is that really American? I certainly hope not. How about Michael Jordan's take:
"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."