I think that the age & calibre have more to do with this than anything else. I read the OP and thought to myself, heck no this guy's way out in left by himself.
But, I also recognize my perspective on this is likely not the same - so, when i consider this, my opinions are also different. Here's why, I coach a 10u house team & a 10u select team. The house team - my objectives are simple, have fun and learn the game. At our parent meetings, invariably a parent will try to add "and to win" to my stated objectives - I quickly and delicately explain winning is NOT an objective - but, if we're effective at learning and having fun, we're sure that some wins will come. As part of this philosophy, we work hard at teaching and developing the girls. We also move them through defensive positions and we ensure that they all play equally.
Has it worked? Whether through luck, karma or perhaps having a great set of kids who absorbed like sponges and then applied their developing skills we had a very successful season and as a split 02/03 team, we took great pride in being mistaken frequently for an all 02 team.
The select team carries the third objective of winning - which drives unequal play time, restriction of positions - which in turn has created untold angst amongst parents (despite them having been told bluntly right upfront that this would happen when their kids were invited to participate).
The thing that is universal between both sets of kids - for the most part, the majority of them don't actually know whether they're winning or losing at any given point in time - even pitchers who've gone out, thrown 9 pitches, then gone back to bat - and getting an at bat in each inning - two innings in a row will be oblivious enough to ask - are we winning coach? Well kiddo, how many times did you score? twice? uh huh. Ok, and, how many kids did you let on base? none? oh, ok... YAY!! we're WINNING!
Ironically, the most fun most of these kids have had this year was against an all 02 boys team that was undefeated going into a game against us, we'd beaten them (by one) when time expired - but we made the decision to play one more anyway - and ended up losing, by one. The best "game" we'd had all season & the most fun almost all of the kids had - a loss.
Age 8-9 year olds? fun & learn.
I'll probably change my mind in a few years. I dont know that im looking forward to it.
But, I also recognize my perspective on this is likely not the same - so, when i consider this, my opinions are also different. Here's why, I coach a 10u house team & a 10u select team. The house team - my objectives are simple, have fun and learn the game. At our parent meetings, invariably a parent will try to add "and to win" to my stated objectives - I quickly and delicately explain winning is NOT an objective - but, if we're effective at learning and having fun, we're sure that some wins will come. As part of this philosophy, we work hard at teaching and developing the girls. We also move them through defensive positions and we ensure that they all play equally.
Has it worked? Whether through luck, karma or perhaps having a great set of kids who absorbed like sponges and then applied their developing skills we had a very successful season and as a split 02/03 team, we took great pride in being mistaken frequently for an all 02 team.
The select team carries the third objective of winning - which drives unequal play time, restriction of positions - which in turn has created untold angst amongst parents (despite them having been told bluntly right upfront that this would happen when their kids were invited to participate).
The thing that is universal between both sets of kids - for the most part, the majority of them don't actually know whether they're winning or losing at any given point in time - even pitchers who've gone out, thrown 9 pitches, then gone back to bat - and getting an at bat in each inning - two innings in a row will be oblivious enough to ask - are we winning coach? Well kiddo, how many times did you score? twice? uh huh. Ok, and, how many kids did you let on base? none? oh, ok... YAY!! we're WINNING!
Ironically, the most fun most of these kids have had this year was against an all 02 boys team that was undefeated going into a game against us, we'd beaten them (by one) when time expired - but we made the decision to play one more anyway - and ended up losing, by one. The best "game" we'd had all season & the most fun almost all of the kids had - a loss.
Age 8-9 year olds? fun & learn.
I'll probably change my mind in a few years. I dont know that im looking forward to it.