I think there is a place for these power house clubs. These are the girls that will likely play high level college ball. So i see the point of the more expensive programs that include paid coaches, etc.
If your DD has aspirations of playing high level D1 softball (SEC, PAC-12, ect) it may be worth the extra money to play for a marquee name organization. There is a "good ole boy" network in high level TB and the marquee teams get into all the good showcases (Independence, Demarini, Legacy, ect) AND they get preferential game times, opponents and fields. Being on a team with multiple D1 talented players also attracts college coaches. I am sure there are stories of players from tier-2 organizations and independent teams who have gone on to great college careers at top D1 schools, but they are the exception, not the rule.