Is it ok to tell a player that she was lucky to get a HR? This is my DDs best friend in the team, she is very athletic but very new to the sport. She has been struggling lately with the better competition but this past weekend she started doing better thats when she hit the HR. Then a strike out came that is when the coach called her to tell her that she was lucky to hit that HR and she have to do better. I dont get it confidence is one of the most important things for success in this sport and this comments to me are harmful in any teen mind. Am i been over dramatic or is this a commom practice in elite teems?