It sounds like your daughter is dedicated, we went through a similar situation, long story short we left after the season was over and couldn't be happier. We had a similar situation where kids were picked up and played over my daughter, that's a key thing to know it's time to find another team. My advise would be to look for another team that needs players and get out before the season really takes off. If other kids that are getting playing time are already speaking about jumping ship that team has a coaching issue....