Where the 'elite' kids shouldn't meet....

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JAD

Feb 20, 2012
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Elite travel baseball and basketball teams make for a youth sports industrial complex


Drew Litton/ESPN.com

Your kid is good, right? Really good? You don't want to brag, but he can do some things on the field that other kids his age won't even try. You played a little ball yourself, and you know the difference.

Make no mistake: There's someone out there for you. He's putting together a team, and he's got a pipeline to the best tournaments. He knows people. He'll have tryouts and he'll tell you what you want to hear. It's expensive, sure, but who can put a price on your kid's future? If he's got a chance to be the best, he needs to play with and against the best, right?

Judging by the direction we're taking preteen youth sports, it appears we have completely lost our minds. Gone crazy -- collectively and individually. It's become something of a hobby for me to read the local sports coverage of the three or four sub-20,000 circulation papers in my area, and I am here to report that the center cannot hold.

The days of simply playing ball with your friends is over. It's a different world out there for the preteen athlete, with "Elite" and "Select" commonly turning up in the names of our youth sports teams and leagues. We're having tryouts for 10-and-under traveling baseball teams, and we've got 10-and-under basketball teams traveling the country playing against other fourth-graders at God knows what cost to the parents' bank accounts and the kids' psyches. All in the name of … what? Trophies? Exposure? A leg up on a college scholarship? The egos of the parents?

The exploits of these kids, which almost always include tournament championships, national rankings from some little-known organization and perspective-free quotes from the coaches, are dutifully and breathlessly reported. If you didn't know any better, you'd think the 9- and 10-year-olds in my neck of the woods are the most remarkable 9- and 10-year-olds anywhere. But then you could probably say the same about yours. You just have to know where to look.

I found a great nugget the other day: a notice for a 10-and-under baseball team that's having tryouts for its extensive fall tournament schedule. The notice included the following sentence: "The team needs competitive youngsters who are looking to play baseball at the next level."

Let's parse that for a moment. Someone needs to explain to me what the "next level" is for a kid who's 10 or younger. I dare you to define it. Is it 11-and-under? Maybe 12-and-under? And if so, are there really 10-year-olds who are striving to play baseball at the 12-and-under level? Wouldn't it just happen naturally -- you know, with age?

If you think that, you're behind the times. This is the age of the special child. This is the age of the parent who believes his or her kid playing Little League for the neighborhood team is beneath them both. (Despite the talent you see at the Little League World Series, make no mistake: Little League has suffered enormously at the hands of the folks who peddle dreams to the parents of the preteen set. Local independent teams -- most of them touting the supposed benefits of year-round play -- skim top players out of neighborhood Little Leagues.) This is the age of the youth-sports industrial complex, where men make a living putting on tournaments for 7-year-olds, and parents subject their children to tryouts and pay good money for the right to enter into it.

There are palaces built just for the purpose of housing these tournaments. Big League Dreams is a chain of West Coast baseball complexes with multiple diamonds that attempts to replicate different big league ballparks. There's a bunch of 10-year-olds playing in Fenway, the 12s in Yankee Stadium and the 13s in Wrigley Field. (You haven't really lived until you've seen Wrigley's ivy-covered wall painted onto slabs of plywood. There are times you have to pinch yourself.) The fields are spokes that extend from the hub -- an air-conditioned restaurant and bar, where parents can sit inside and watch games away from the infernal heat.

They go through every player's backpack as he enters -- and yes, there's an entrance fee -- to make sure he isn't trying to smuggle in any outside food or drink. PowerBars and Gatorades are confiscated.

There are buzzwords in this business, sure to coax the gullible parent. The big three terms are "elite," "select," and "travel ball." Oh, the power of those words. Waving the prospect of "travel ball" under the nose of the ambitious father of a talented 9-year-old is like wafting a steak under the nose of a sleeping dog. After all, the more you travel and the farther you go to play a sport, the better you must be at that sport, right?

"Travel ball," in this world, is meant as a synonym for "better ball." Parents say, "Oh, he plays travel ball," as a means of separating their kids from the riffraff who don't see fit to spend thousands of dollars to travel all over the place with their 9-year-olds. And if it's "year-round travel ball" -- a red flag across the orthopedic medical community for the dangers of repetitive overuse -- all the better. It's a status symbol, one promoted by parents and justified by the guys who collect tournament fees, and it's the main reason baseball in this country is widely becoming the province of wealthy suburbia.

These are 9- and 10-year-olds, which raises a question: What the hell are we doing?

Here's one thing we're doing: We're creating a class of kids who are being labeled with terms such as "elite" and "competitive" and "best of the best." They're being worshipped by their parents and coaches, who keep statistics to post online and send photographs to the local paper. It's organized insanity.

And this is just something to think about, but if there are countless elite and select teams where I live, how elite and select can they be?

We went through a culture shift in American education in which self-esteem became a major focus. Slower kids became "challenged" or "special" as a means of eliminating pejoratives. A lot of good came of it; kids who were branded with demeaning terms found strength in their differences.

Well, the pendulum has sure swung, hasn't it? We're nearing the point in youth sports where we need to stop the "elite" and "select" madness because we're raising a generation with too much self-esteem. They can't handle failure because they've been conditioned to believe they're too good to fail. They're being placed on teams that identify them as better than their peers on the whim of either a parent/coach or a businessman/coach.

Parents line up to have their kids try out for under-10 fall baseball teams, where tiny kids compete for the right to have their arms trashed by pitching in four different games over two days of a weekend tournament put on by a for-profit organization that gives teams 10 minutes between games to warm up.

There is the allure of better coaching (sometimes true), better gear (nearly always true) and better competition (debatable). Still, is there anything dumber than holding tryouts for 9-year-olds? We're not talking about Little League tryouts, which don't include cuts and are intended to place kids at the appropriate level for their ability. No, we're talking about putting 9- and 10-year-olds through an extensive tryout to keep some and cut others.

And then, five years down the line when Little Johnny decides to trade his bat and glove for a skateboard and a piercing, his parents can scream and yell about the travel ball coach who ruined baseball for their son by taking their money and not playing him. It's an overgeneralization, sure, but the whole operation has a way of surgically extracting the fun out of a sport at an age when fun is all it should be.

Here's what the dream-peddlers don't tell you: Anyone who has spent more than five innings watching 10-year-olds play baseball -- or one half of a basketball game -- knows that athletic ability in a kid that young is directly related to physical maturity. The kid with hair under his arms in sixth grade is going to hit the baseball farther than the prepubescent kid who can't get out of the dugout without tripping over his own feet. It's really not that hard.

When I played youth baseball -- it was called "Fly League" where I grew up -- everyone knew the legend of Buddy Wall. He was the 5-foot-10 guy from the other side of town who struck everyone out, hit mammoth homers and bench-pressed 225 at 12 years old. He was a couple of years older than me, and I lost track of him after Fly League days. Then, when I was 16 and showed up for the first day of practice for a local 16- to 19-year-old team, the coach had all the players introduce themselves. One guy, 5-10 with a full beard, said, "My name's Buddy Wall."

I was stunned. I wanted to yell out, "No! You're not Buddy Wall! Buddy Wall is bigger than life, and you're a backup outfielder on an average summer-league team." But he was Buddy Wall, and he still liked to play baseball even though the rest of the field had caught up with him. Today, Buddy would have been a travel-ball wonder at 9, feted and honored throughout the land. I'm guessing it would have made the inevitable fall to 19-year-old backup summer league outfielder that much harder to take.
 
Jun 27, 2011
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North Carolina
Some good points and truth in there.

At least as many presumptions, generalizations and stereotypes, though.

But of course, he's talking baseball. We're not anything like that.
 
Jul 6, 2013
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He tells a ton of truths in there, but let's be realistic...I couldn't care less if my daughters play a day after they decide they want to quit. Sure, I'll miss it. But you can't replace the time I've spent with them, and I can't think of a better way to have done it, than by doing something THEY want to do right now. Did I forget to mention they aren't stuck up a little boys behind all the time? ;)
 
Feb 17, 2014
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Orlando, FL
Yet, another pointless rant. Perhaps some cheese to go with his whine? :)

I played as a kid in the mid to late 60's and the old coots were ranting back then about how terrible it was compared to when they played.

The more things changes the more they stay the same.
 
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Dec 20, 2012
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Yet, another pointless rant. Perhaps some cheese to go with his whine? :)

I played as a kid in the mid to late 60's and the old coots were ranting back then about how terrible it was compared to when they played.

The more things changes the more they stay the same.


Man,you are showing your age! lol
 
Jul 19, 2014
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Madison, WI
Man,you are showing your age! lol

From the kids' POV, anyone old enough to remember the 20th Century is a dinosaur.

I am truly ancient. I can actually remember a lot of the 1960s. Older folks were always complaining about the spoiled kids.
One of the favorite quotes of younger people was of an Ancient Greek whining about Kids These Days.
 
Nov 26, 2010
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Michigan
Except the article isn't about the kids or the level of talent. It's about adults and how the new paradigm is about making money by creating false dreams.

10 year olds who want to play at the next level. That's good stuff there.
 
Jun 18, 2013
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When my DS was 10 I asked him what his goals were. He said he wanted to play baseball for his High School varsity team. That was his big dream. This is a kid that was playing spring and fall baseball and going to a private hitting coach to try to make it to a level where he could make a travel team. We paid for summer baseball camps at LSU for 3 years, speed and agility training, and my arm still starts to get sore when I think of all of the hours I spent throwing with him. Now he is 16 and he is a manager for his High School team. He has no chance of ever playing.

Do I regret any of the money we spent chasing his goal of playing at the next level when he was 10? Nope. Not even a little. He didn't make it, but it taught him a valuable lesson about setting goals and then creating a plan for working towards them. It also taught him that even if you don't make it, you still learn valuable lessons along the way and sometimes figure out that your original goal was the wrong target in the first place. His new goal is to get an academic scholarship to Auburn for engineering. He has already been contacted by a recruiter from the department because his school's robotics team went to the state robotics competition that Auburn hosted during his freshman year and he knows what GPA and ACT score he needs. He has his class schedule set to be done with his core classes by the end of his Junior year so he can take easy classes his Senior year to focus on attempt 3 and 4 of the ACT if needed and he has his new goal firmly in his sights. I think all of the money spent chasing his unattainable baseball dream was money well invested.
 
Apr 28, 2014
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I had first hand experience on both ends of the spectrum.
My DD is 12 and she's good.. she played Sunday select from 8 years old and works very hard and is blessed with great speed and strength. She's a great student and a nice kid. The coaches in the area love her as she's also a good team player and motivator. My DS is 8 and has spent the last 4 years being the kid that was dragged to all of her tournaments, practices etc. He plays baseball but does not have anywhere near the skills that DD has. He's quiet and much more reserved. This spring there were tryouts for an 8U baseball travel team. Wife and I asked him if he wanted to try out. He said "sure"!
I was happy about this alone and I knew he would not make the team (deep inside we all know our kids). He tried out with the 28 other kids and looked like the 20th best player :D
Not bad except that they are fielding a team of 12. At the end of the third try out the coach, who had ignored me and the wife the whole time saw my DD with us. He knows her from the REC leagues and came over and said to her "Hey girl is your brother here" and looked at the roster. You could see his face fall when he realized that my DS was her brother.
He pulled me and the wife aside and said "I was thinking that we may want to see you son in more of a private tryout setting, as we know that your family knows the commitment that travel ball has and were not sure that all of these parents know the commitment".
I looked at my wife and she said "Coach I think we all can see that he's not ready yet".
These coaches did not say two words to us the whole time until they saw DD. The politics in kids sports are crazy :D
Will it ever end?
 

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