My DD's current 14u team has competed in 5 tournaments (2 fall / 2 winter / 1 spring). Of the 5 tournaments we had to borrow players in 4 of the 5 tournaments. We have 10 players on our team and of that number, we have girls missing because of vacations, church, etc. We only had 7 of our 10 at yesterday's game so we borrowed 2 from a 12u team so we played all 9. Our starting pitcher got hurt in the 2nd inning of the championship game and couldn't finish the game. So instead of forfeiting, we played with 8 and lost the championship 9-1. Several factors led to the 9-1 score but the main issue is the lack of players that is on our roster.
I'm sure this question has been asked before but I thought I would throw it out there for my situation. My DD has been offered spots on a couple of teams within the last few weeks but we have turned them down at that time. We feel very strongly about keeping our word and honoring our commitment that we made to the team. The coaches have been looking for more players, but has been doing that since September! We still have 10!
For me I just want my DD to have fun, become a better player and win some games and possibly a tournament if things go right. It isn't about wins. My DD is putting in 100% and more. Two team practices a week, at least one batting lesson, one pitching lesson a week and pitch with me another 2 times each week. She really has fun with most of her schedule, but she is frustrated with the player that only attends practice once or twice a month, doesn't attend batting practice, shows up to the games unprepared and goes 1-12 at the plate with 9 strike outs. That definitely takes the FUN out of it....
So where does the 'honor our commitment' end and common sense begin? My concern is that if we sit on the fence much longer the other two spots on the other teams will be filled and we will be stuck on a team, a team that is on the verge of collapse. I feel that if we leave then the team will dissolve which only makes things worse being labeled as the reason why the team fell apart, when all along we have only had 10 players, borrowing player for almost every tournament, etc.
I'm sure this question has been asked before but I thought I would throw it out there for my situation. My DD has been offered spots on a couple of teams within the last few weeks but we have turned them down at that time. We feel very strongly about keeping our word and honoring our commitment that we made to the team. The coaches have been looking for more players, but has been doing that since September! We still have 10!
For me I just want my DD to have fun, become a better player and win some games and possibly a tournament if things go right. It isn't about wins. My DD is putting in 100% and more. Two team practices a week, at least one batting lesson, one pitching lesson a week and pitch with me another 2 times each week. She really has fun with most of her schedule, but she is frustrated with the player that only attends practice once or twice a month, doesn't attend batting practice, shows up to the games unprepared and goes 1-12 at the plate with 9 strike outs. That definitely takes the FUN out of it....
So where does the 'honor our commitment' end and common sense begin? My concern is that if we sit on the fence much longer the other two spots on the other teams will be filled and we will be stuck on a team, a team that is on the verge of collapse. I feel that if we leave then the team will dissolve which only makes things worse being labeled as the reason why the team fell apart, when all along we have only had 10 players, borrowing player for almost every tournament, etc.