We only had a home plate umpire, no base umpire.
Ball hit to SS, went to 2nd base, runner coming from 1st was called out.
3rd base coach from the other Team started jawing at the umpire to the umpire, the umpire went a little short of the pitching circle and started yelling questions at my SS. Did you step on the base, did you tag her, basically does my SS think she was safe or out?
The umpire was not mean but for a 10U girl it was aggressive and she was confused. I was so flabbergasted I did not know what to do; maybe I do not have the mentality for this game. Anyways he changed his mind and called her safe.]
I went out to my SS and had a private conversation with her, without the other100 people being involved. Told her the umpire was a jerk, start over and tell me what happened.
A lot of people say winning or losing is not a priority, for me it is true. Our SS knows this and explained what happened, my SS thought the runner was out. I went to the umpire, did not really caring what the call was my girls know I have their backs, but he called the 1st base runner out again.
Please name the 15 or 20 things I did wrong, I was so disappointed in myself.
Above long story, but I would prefer not to have this umpire again, I can tolerate the inconsistent high strikes, the balls at the ankles that are called strikes, the random outside pitch that is called a strike. Not ideal but same for both Teams.
Is it ever acceptable for an umpire to talk to a girl about something like this? NO!
I am afraid to talk to the person in charge of the umpires, I am afraid to talk to the actual umpire after the game.
I am not complaining about Umpires in general, I have thought they were all doing the best job they could and more or less consistent for each Team.
Ball hit to SS, went to 2nd base, runner coming from 1st was called out.
3rd base coach from the other Team started jawing at the umpire to the umpire, the umpire went a little short of the pitching circle and started yelling questions at my SS. Did you step on the base, did you tag her, basically does my SS think she was safe or out?
The umpire was not mean but for a 10U girl it was aggressive and she was confused. I was so flabbergasted I did not know what to do; maybe I do not have the mentality for this game. Anyways he changed his mind and called her safe.]
I went out to my SS and had a private conversation with her, without the other100 people being involved. Told her the umpire was a jerk, start over and tell me what happened.
A lot of people say winning or losing is not a priority, for me it is true. Our SS knows this and explained what happened, my SS thought the runner was out. I went to the umpire, did not really caring what the call was my girls know I have their backs, but he called the 1st base runner out again.
Please name the 15 or 20 things I did wrong, I was so disappointed in myself.
Above long story, but I would prefer not to have this umpire again, I can tolerate the inconsistent high strikes, the balls at the ankles that are called strikes, the random outside pitch that is called a strike. Not ideal but same for both Teams.
Is it ever acceptable for an umpire to talk to a girl about something like this? NO!
I am afraid to talk to the person in charge of the umpires, I am afraid to talk to the actual umpire after the game.
I am not complaining about Umpires in general, I have thought they were all doing the best job they could and more or less consistent for each Team.