The most important thing to teach a child is how to make decisions. Part of that training (and this is going to shock some parents): *LET HER MAKE A DECISION*. She has made a decision. Perhaps you don't agree with it, but it is a rational decision. It will not damage her.
The biggest mistake a parent makes is to force the child to do what the parent wants. So, forget it, let her play rec ball, and enjoy the ride.
She might change her mind and play TB, or she might not. But, it is much better to let her do what she wants to do and you enjoy the experience.
Quick story: My youngest DD gave up softball when she was a sophomore in HS. I was heartbroken, but she wanted to play basketball. Six years later, she was holding an NCAA D3 Championship trophy for basketball.
The biggest mistake a parent makes is to force the child to do what the parent wants. So, forget it, let her play rec ball, and enjoy the ride.
She might change her mind and play TB, or she might not. But, it is much better to let her do what she wants to do and you enjoy the experience.
Quick story: My youngest DD gave up softball when she was a sophomore in HS. I was heartbroken, but she wanted to play basketball. Six years later, she was holding an NCAA D3 Championship trophy for basketball.
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