My DD's coach is one of the toughest around. She demands a lot, but never more than they can give. She yells when they screw up. But as quickly as possible, she pulls them aside and Teaches them how to do it right, firmly but kindly. She taps them on their helmet and sends them back into the game.
She also yells, happily, when they do things right.
They all love her and respect her. Because they are respected.
DD played on a "great" TB team with a coach who used anger and intimidation. We stayed 3 months. Then got out.
Grabbing a face mask, at any age, crosses the line, IMO, as does name calling. Both are degrading.
She also yells, happily, when they do things right.
They all love her and respect her. Because they are respected.
DD played on a "great" TB team with a coach who used anger and intimidation. We stayed 3 months. Then got out.
Grabbing a face mask, at any age, crosses the line, IMO, as does name calling. Both are degrading.