By 14U, you should be facing pitching routinely 55+. If she can hit that with a "long, arcing swing", then more power to her. I have my doubts, however.
With that being said...IMHO, a really good softball swing and a really good baseball swing are pretty similar. But, I don't personally think that a "long, arcing swing" constitutes a really good baseball swing.
Agreed.
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