the average college student changes their major more then once. Maybe its a good thing she is going through it now. I know we think its best to go in with the exact idea of what they want, so they can pick the right school. On the other hand we don't want them pigeon holed by their choice, with no options once they are in school. In the long run she has to be comfortable with her choice and bouncing around different ideas in her mind might be her way of testing what she wants and making sure its best. Sort of like if you were going to buy a car, you probably wouldn't buy the first one you looked at, at least not until you looked at a couple more. She is just kicking the tires right now and trying to find the one thats best.
Funny thing is I can tell everyone else's kid exactly what they need to do as far as college goes , but can't explain it to my own.
I just want her to understand how the world works, and to get into a secure field that she will always have employment. I want her to have a career she enjoys and not just a "job". Making great money and hating your job is miserable, making good money and loving your career can make a huge difference in how you feel on a daily basis.
Your post comes at a good time. I rode into work today and didn't even turn on the radio. Before I left I went into DD's bathroom and started in again on our college visits and what I "thought" she should do. She laid her brush down, turned to me and said "dad, you're not always going to be able to call my games from the dugout..............you've got to trust me and let me play".
I knew what she meant by that statement. Why do they have to grow up?