... she is taking a break from pitching and wants to focus more on infield. The current team she is on already has a set infield and DD was never included in that so we have told her current coach we will be exploring other options that might have an infield opportunity for her. FYI - coach understands and has been playing DD more at 1B and DD is doing really awesome.
... Honestly DD has played outfield and she is not good. She still wears a facemask in the outfield and has caught crap from other outfielders on her team about it. DH was an outfielder in college and he has tried to work with her and he is now pretty positive that she is not outfield material. She is hesitant and not aggressive out there which is crazy because she is super aggressive on the infield. She is pretty fearless on that dirt but put her back in the grass and she is a different player.
Couple of thoughts when I read this ...
By your description, you have a ''strong infielder,'' but not strong enough in the opinion of the current coach to be trusted at 3B/SS/2B. You also have a weak outfielder who doesn't want to play OF.
So, do you want to find a team where players move around a lot? Or do you want to find a team where she would be a starting infielder and generally stay there?
If I'm a coach and here a prospective new player described like this, I'm thinking, 'That's fine - as long as she's definitely one of the 4 that I want in the infield. Otherwise, she's a defensive liability. If I put her in the infield, I'm benching one of my better infielders. If I put her in the outfield, she's unhappy and besides that can't catch a fly ball.
Nothing wrong with your DD's desire to play IF, but just know that it might limit her. I don't know many strong infielders who are terrible outfielders unless they are limited in range or just hate it. At 14U, it becomes more fun and challenging.