Heck, some of the called third strikes I've seen, I wouldn't even take a swing. And I sure as heck couldn't do 10 pushups.
Seriously, communication between coach and player to me is the best. Most of these kids want to succeed and coaches need to teach them to succeed. At this age (actually at all ages), sometimes you have to remind them, you can have fun but you got to focus also. Why did they miss that last sign or not swing? It could be something as simple as they were mad because they did not swing at the last pitch or swung and missed. Then you need to teach them to forget about it and refocus on the next pitch. It could be something a teammate told her about the pitcher and that is what she was focused on. Heck, they may not even have known they had two strikes. To me, bottom line is you have to teach them to focus and refocus.
As a side note, I was at an 18u showcase tourney several weeks ago to watch a certain team (16u) I am familiar. Well, they met up with a buzz saw of a pitcher. She was fast, great movement on the ball, curve, drop, screwball and rise. I have not seen so many called third strikes in a long time. I laughingly told the coach after the game he should quit giving the take sign so much!
Seriously, communication between coach and player to me is the best. Most of these kids want to succeed and coaches need to teach them to succeed. At this age (actually at all ages), sometimes you have to remind them, you can have fun but you got to focus also. Why did they miss that last sign or not swing? It could be something as simple as they were mad because they did not swing at the last pitch or swung and missed. Then you need to teach them to forget about it and refocus on the next pitch. It could be something a teammate told her about the pitcher and that is what she was focused on. Heck, they may not even have known they had two strikes. To me, bottom line is you have to teach them to focus and refocus.
As a side note, I was at an 18u showcase tourney several weeks ago to watch a certain team (16u) I am familiar. Well, they met up with a buzz saw of a pitcher. She was fast, great movement on the ball, curve, drop, screwball and rise. I have not seen so many called third strikes in a long time. I laughingly told the coach after the game he should quit giving the take sign so much!