- May 25, 2010
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It's been building for a while, but if you're going to try to break up a team, either do it in before May or else wait until the team loses its final game.
There are a few parents who aren't happy with the team. A couple of them have made it clear that they intend to walk at the end of the season. They don't beat that drum all the time, though. They're unhappy, so they plan to search for a better situation for them, and that's that. Ever since those announcements came out, they've been regular parts of the team without too much extra drama at all. There might be the occasional question about who played what inning or something, but nothing over the top anymore.
The other set of parents are having a tough time handling their situation with dignity. They're mad and they want to break up the team to start a new one instead of just going their own way. I know I post on this site, but I'm not sure what gave them the impression that I was in any way interested in forming a breakaway team with them. I was upset when they asked me, because it seemed like such a shady, underhanded move. But, instead of making a scene or trying to embarrass them, I took the high road at the moment and said our family was happy right now, but would evaluate after nationals as every family and the coaches should do.
They're the parents who'll spend half their time complaining about our team to other parents on our team and spend the other half complaining to parents of other teams about our team. Their DD may be sweet, but that's not a couple I am looking to build a lasting relationship with. And with the way they've chosen to manage their departure from this team, I can imagine most other parents won't ended up spending much time with them either if they do start a new team.
There are a few parents who aren't happy with the team. A couple of them have made it clear that they intend to walk at the end of the season. They don't beat that drum all the time, though. They're unhappy, so they plan to search for a better situation for them, and that's that. Ever since those announcements came out, they've been regular parts of the team without too much extra drama at all. There might be the occasional question about who played what inning or something, but nothing over the top anymore.
The other set of parents are having a tough time handling their situation with dignity. They're mad and they want to break up the team to start a new one instead of just going their own way. I know I post on this site, but I'm not sure what gave them the impression that I was in any way interested in forming a breakaway team with them. I was upset when they asked me, because it seemed like such a shady, underhanded move. But, instead of making a scene or trying to embarrass them, I took the high road at the moment and said our family was happy right now, but would evaluate after nationals as every family and the coaches should do.
They're the parents who'll spend half their time complaining about our team to other parents on our team and spend the other half complaining to parents of other teams about our team. Their DD may be sweet, but that's not a couple I am looking to build a lasting relationship with. And with the way they've chosen to manage their departure from this team, I can imagine most other parents won't ended up spending much time with them either if they do start a new team.