OK...here is kind of a fun thread, but sort of looking for advice too.
My family...sisters, mom, etc thinks that my hubby, me and DD are obsessed with softball. They aren't into it (or any sport) and they don't understand the softball way of life.
We play for a tournament team and will play tournaments this summer and then league play during the week (ususally 2 games per week). My daughter is also a pitcher, so we have our lesson and then practice for that.
From reading numerous posts on here, I know that everyone into softball is pretty much the same schedule as us.
Now, here is the big thing.....my hubby, me and especially my DD LOVES it. We love the game, the tournament life and the excitment. My DD hopes to pitch in college one day. I think what makes them think that we go overboard and are crazy is that, this past summer, we chose softball tournaments over a few family functions and was late to a couple more. We talked about it (me, huby and DD) and decided that we would rather attend the tournaments then be at the functions. (Nothing big...just kid bday parties and such....we would never miss weddings and the such). we did choose a tournament over the family reunion, but it is the side of the family that we see all the time, so it's not like we would have missed a long lost relative. (we did end up going tho cause tourney was rained out till next day)
I try to explain this to my family that we love it and it's DD's choice to play....but they just don't get it. They don't see how we can be involved in a sport so heavily. Keep in mind that they don't come to any of her games and don't really even support her.
So, here's the question. Has any of you ever run into people like this and, if so, how do you handle it. What do you tell them?
My family...sisters, mom, etc thinks that my hubby, me and DD are obsessed with softball. They aren't into it (or any sport) and they don't understand the softball way of life.
We play for a tournament team and will play tournaments this summer and then league play during the week (ususally 2 games per week). My daughter is also a pitcher, so we have our lesson and then practice for that.
From reading numerous posts on here, I know that everyone into softball is pretty much the same schedule as us.
Now, here is the big thing.....my hubby, me and especially my DD LOVES it. We love the game, the tournament life and the excitment. My DD hopes to pitch in college one day. I think what makes them think that we go overboard and are crazy is that, this past summer, we chose softball tournaments over a few family functions and was late to a couple more. We talked about it (me, huby and DD) and decided that we would rather attend the tournaments then be at the functions. (Nothing big...just kid bday parties and such....we would never miss weddings and the such). we did choose a tournament over the family reunion, but it is the side of the family that we see all the time, so it's not like we would have missed a long lost relative. (we did end up going tho cause tourney was rained out till next day)
I try to explain this to my family that we love it and it's DD's choice to play....but they just don't get it. They don't see how we can be involved in a sport so heavily. Keep in mind that they don't come to any of her games and don't really even support her.
So, here's the question. Has any of you ever run into people like this and, if so, how do you handle it. What do you tell them?
Last edited: