Hi everyone, I just want to ask for some advice. My husband was killed 3 weeks ago by a drunk driver on his way to work at 7 in the morning. This is the hardest thing that I hae ever had to deal with in my life. I don't understand how this could happen, nevermind explain it too my children. Both my daughters play softball, my oldest plays college softball and she has just thrown herself back into her routine and she is doing well...my youngest is another story...she is a pitcher and used to go to lessons but we had to stop them for financial reasons after this horrible tragedy..I went from 2 incomes to 1 income. My husband was her catcher for her lessons so she didn't want to go anyway and I won't force her to do it...she is very talented and I told her that her sister and I would help her and that her father was so proud of her in everything she did. But she says she doesn't want to do it...I am hoping over time (cause it has only been 3 weeks)that she will change her mind...do any of you have any ideas how to gradually get her back in cause next week she is supposed to start conditioning...the coach is being understanding but also I fear that my dd will regret not goingand by then it would be too late...so I welcome any advice...this is a hard thing and my brain doesn't always make the right decisions cause I feel like I am living a nightmare!! Just trying to do the right things for my girls!!