- Jan 25, 2011
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What to heck, she is only 10. Things happen in life.
Just a note about this ... over the years, I have really had to struggle with this concept when it came time to dismissing players. I've found that when it comes to parents making your life (and your team) miserable, you have to divorce yourself from the age of the girl in question and you really need to be able to get past your fondness for her, as well.The question I see at hand is, "Do you penalize a 10yr old child because of the actions of a parent?"
As a coach you completely skipped over how and when you decided to play 2-1/2 hours away.
Was it completely up front from the beginning, or did you change your mind later.
That is the key here. Nothing else matters.
Especially at 10U, some players and parents are strapped for cash. For the coach to up and decide on his own that we need to travel 2-1/2 hours away and get a hotel room, and time off from work, is a big question.
Only you have the answer. The other posters do not have a clue.