My DD had a good game last night, but was highly upset afterwards. She was 1 for 2 (strikeout and single), and made all of the plays in the field that came her way. Her two points of contention were the strikeout and a fly ball to right field she felt she should have caught. The opposing pitcher was very good, and every girl on the team struck out at least once. The fly ball would have been catchable with a full speed diving catch, but playing it safe and keeping the runner to a single was a good, conservative play. Both her coaches and us (her parents) emphasized to her that she played well. Objectively, she played a good game but she has played better. She was probably 80% of her best.
My concern is the possibility of her coaches becoming fatigued of a "high maintenance" player. My DD is a perfectionist, and places more pressure on herself than her coaches or we do. How do I get her to relax and enjoy the game, while still maintaining the competitive fire? I've gained a large understanding of 12 YOA girls from this board, and I am very appreciative. Any additional insights on this particular issue would be greatly appreciated.
My concern is the possibility of her coaches becoming fatigued of a "high maintenance" player. My DD is a perfectionist, and places more pressure on herself than her coaches or we do. How do I get her to relax and enjoy the game, while still maintaining the competitive fire? I've gained a large understanding of 12 YOA girls from this board, and I am very appreciative. Any additional insights on this particular issue would be greatly appreciated.
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