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That was a good post, thanks!. The other girls learned how to practice, how to compete, how to dress, how to act. I had attempted to teach all of those things but until they could actually see it at practice every day it really didn't resonate.
Regarding the quote above-if the other girls didn't want to learn, were irritated by the girl trying to lead, and the coach insisted that she was responsible for discipline and did nothing to back her up, -That would be more like DD's HS experience.
DD was on a new TB team this past summer. She loved the team and had a great experience, but they didn't win very often due to a shallow talent pool. If HS was the same, I wouldn't have had to ask the question in the first place.