Coach J You just said the men played fastpitch. So that's fine. But I would not want to learn any sport from someone who had not participated in it, or let's say a language from someone who has not spoken it in real life, but listened to a lot of tapes. And many people would disagree with you on whether the female pitching form is different from male pitching form or female hitting is different than male hitting.
so your daughter plays for females only? I do not have a daughter and I have been coaching for 10 years. I go on websites everyday and have taken some pitching lessons so I can know what I am talking about and I am former HS Varsity Coach and I now run my own Travel Organization! Your daughter wouldn't play for me?