We were pretty much in that implied position, and the kid decided to take it due to some anxiety issues (post concussion syndrome) and didn't want any more tryouts. Next day, another coach we'd lined up a private workout with due to a conflict on that team's scheduled tryout texts me that they actually need a catcher now because one left (previously, it was one of those "all spots up for grabs * but we already have catchers).
The whole family felt frustrated, but that's the deal we made. So we're sticking with it, and thanked the other coach but said we'd made a decision and accepted a spot the night before. Part of this isn't just about playing ball IMO, it's about raising the kid. Tough decisions need to be made on both the coaches side and the family side. If a coach has limited spots, as long as they're honest, I can feel for them. We took what we thought was an informed decision, but might have lost out on an opportunity. On the other hand, we might be exactly where we need to be. You never know going in.
The whole family felt frustrated, but that's the deal we made. So we're sticking with it, and thanked the other coach but said we'd made a decision and accepted a spot the night before. Part of this isn't just about playing ball IMO, it's about raising the kid. Tough decisions need to be made on both the coaches side and the family side. If a coach has limited spots, as long as they're honest, I can feel for them. We took what we thought was an informed decision, but might have lost out on an opportunity. On the other hand, we might be exactly where we need to be. You never know going in.