I'm not really sure what you mean by that since demeanor and tone are difficult to detect from short, incomplete, written material. Anyone who thinks that an "umpire's" count must be challenged immediately by anyone who disagrees is pretty narrow minded. Players and coaches are so often wrong with the count it's unbelievable. No one expects a 10 year old girl to turn around and ask, "Isn't it actually one and one?" to an umpire with whom she disagrees on the count. Get real.
I don't know why you keep trying to insert a 10-year-old into a conversation that started over a college hitter trying to pull a fast one, but whatever.