If she's not motivated, then accept it, imo. Don't be frustrated or sad about it. It's neither good nor bad. It's just the way she feels. If she could be a great pitcher but never is, so what? It's no tragedy if a child doesn't live up to her athletic potential. It's better to be passionate about something than be great at something, even though the world admires greatness more.
I suspect that your DD just needs a break. She's figuring out what's important to her, and that's a good thing. I would support her in that.
As for you and me and the rest of the parents out there, here's a test --
If our daughters quit softball today, would our attitude be:
"She worked all these years and didn't see it through. What a shame.''
or
"That was fun while it lasted. We had some good times. I wonder what her next passion will be.''
I suspect that your DD just needs a break. She's figuring out what's important to her, and that's a good thing. I would support her in that.
As for you and me and the rest of the parents out there, here's a test --
If our daughters quit softball today, would our attitude be:
"She worked all these years and didn't see it through. What a shame.''
or
"That was fun while it lasted. We had some good times. I wonder what her next passion will be.''