- Feb 17, 2011
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Seems your options are limited:
1) Back up and try to be objective about moves understanding that this may be about trying something to spark another kid into stepping up and not just about your dd;
2) Put this in perspective in that you have already exceeded your expectations for this year by making v team and excelling and these 9-10 missed at bats isn't the end of the world;
3) Be supportive of TEAM and help your dd understand these character bldg opportunities even if coach did make a mistake;
4) Make this a huge deal - complain to everyone who will listen and divide the team into your camp and coach's camp;
5) Move;
6) Start your own high school and coach the team;
well 5 and 6 are out.... lol
We are all about sucking it up and pushing forward and believe me expectations have been more than met. This oppourtunity has been great for my dd but I didnt realize many things that were going on, as I am often at work, until today. Having sat down with dd and mom since this thread was started and talked with them I have found out things that make me yet more concerned. At yesterdays game the coach cussed in presence of the girls several times, and the head coach on third got into it with the asst. coach on first yelling across the field at each other! The asst coach on first is the only one on the staff that i truely think at this point can find his rear end with both hands. I dont know if there is a power struggle going on btwn them but no one of the gurus on this board can convince me now that this coach is doing his best for the team.
Oh and by the way dd said coach has been critical of her "rotational hitting crap" but she has just blown it off and not let it get to her. He has been showing her something like linear hitting as "that is how he hit in college back in the late 70's"
So yeah some may think I'm one of those parents but I now know that he is "one of those coaches"