- Oct 6, 2010
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DD has been playing the past year at the 10u (now 12U) for a very good comp team. Comp season ended this summer but the girls were kept together to play a rec season, basically for practice for the upcoming spring season. DD has worked very hard to become a good pitcher on the team, but the comp season showed her languishing as the #3. Given that, the rest of her game needs improvement. Her coaches have clearly indicated that she has the God-given physical tools that make most people salivate; however, the mental portion of the game seems to kick her in the pants frequently. Coach has indicated to me that she has spent so much time concentrating on pitching, which is her passion, that the rest of her game (situational stuff) has clearly suffered. DD plays sporadically in the infield and being #3 she clearly doesn't pitch as much as she would like. A perfect example: playing right field she missed a ball--no biggie. A short time later she missed another--still working on the drop step. The kicker is once she picked up the ball she froze like she didn't know where to throw it while baserunners are roaming unchecked. That drove the coach insane. I can see it from his point of view, but it pains me to watch her get he butt chewed over and over again.
Coach has told me that some kids "get the game" at different points (ages), but I hate watching her make such fundamental mistakes. What can I do? She loves to pitch, but DD has little value to this particular team when she is not on the mound. I am paying big bucks for this too and sitting the bench stinks! I have considered moving her to a team with lower standards and I have actually had her practice with some teams. Problem is, she is pretty advanced for those teams. Every week she tells me "Dad, I can't wait for this weekend because I get to play softball." The drive home on Sunday then finds her in tears and with myself at a loss. I cannot do this for her. DD says she wants to get better and asks me to help by practicing with her. Coach has offered to sit down with her and us parents to go over his expectations.
Despite her issues in the field at other positions she is clearly emerging as a top level pitcher and has really improved her fielding skills at that positions. Her batting can be off the charts as well. The coach is clearly at a loss. I am sure that he wishes she struggled everywhere so that he could cut her, but just when you think she has hit rock bottom she does something amazing at the plate or on the mound. Is it DD, the team, the coach, the Dad or what? What do I do to help her? I cannot watch this much longer....
Coach has told me that some kids "get the game" at different points (ages), but I hate watching her make such fundamental mistakes. What can I do? She loves to pitch, but DD has little value to this particular team when she is not on the mound. I am paying big bucks for this too and sitting the bench stinks! I have considered moving her to a team with lower standards and I have actually had her practice with some teams. Problem is, she is pretty advanced for those teams. Every week she tells me "Dad, I can't wait for this weekend because I get to play softball." The drive home on Sunday then finds her in tears and with myself at a loss. I cannot do this for her. DD says she wants to get better and asks me to help by practicing with her. Coach has offered to sit down with her and us parents to go over his expectations.
Despite her issues in the field at other positions she is clearly emerging as a top level pitcher and has really improved her fielding skills at that positions. Her batting can be off the charts as well. The coach is clearly at a loss. I am sure that he wishes she struggled everywhere so that he could cut her, but just when you think she has hit rock bottom she does something amazing at the plate or on the mound. Is it DD, the team, the coach, the Dad or what? What do I do to help her? I cannot watch this much longer....