- Nov 8, 2010
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Good morning,
I know spell check sorry
1st. Coaches I am not a parent that looks threw rose colored glasses, I can tell a apple from an orange and when my kids are the orange. I told myself I will not be, "one of those parents" a long time ago. You know the type I'm talking about. I have been the G.M. and assested the last 2 years on my older 14 then 15u dd's team. So I do know what you go threw.
2nd If you are a coach please note in your reply.
3rd. I have a just turned, 13 and 2 mo. old dd. She did not make the team she wanted. She was however invited to run with all winter practices and the team.
This team is elite, one of top in the state, she played last year with the same org. different team and coach. She has played elite 3 years, till now.
New Coach loves her. His question to her last week wile I'm standing there talking to him and she walked up was, "Where THE HECK were you at tryouts"? (she did not "sell herself", "thought she was a auto" she was there and he knew of her at that point, we have knowen the family for years)
This is where the plot thickens.
dd has been invited to play with several other teams. She is crazzy competive and a mid 2 threw 5 on any team (she started in fall-ball with the varsty HS team at 3rd and short, batted 3, 4 or 5 every game) ok I'm going to say it, she not a bad ball player, there I said it, sorry I slipped a little theres those glasses, LOL. Anyway, I see it, the few teams she has gone to a practice with just aren't at the same level. There is one 14u that will play some good ball this year. They want her to play in a tourney in less than 2 weeks then make her decission. Sight unseen by them. I scout the practices b-4 hand.
The team that she wanted and is practicing with has had a girl move and there is a spot now open. Practices are to run till end of march.
Now if she plays in 2 weeks and then the team she wants, coach finally gets around to asking her to join them, she at that point will be not able to play in any asa tourney's and he will not take her. Can't blame him. BUT.
Do you have your watters on, it about to get deeper?
Now the question, do I try to explain to the coach and ask I he is going to take her?? The feeling and only a feeling, (many in the Orgnization as well) is she's on the team, yet not been ask. this is feeling we even get from him too.
See there is the problem then I become "that parent". This will probley black list me and maybe my kid??
Note, the coach and I are cool because I'm not that parent like many others he has. And he tells me about them all the time, he comes to me!! Wile stepping on people to talk to me. He has a way about him. Everyone knows if you are in his circle and if your not. That type of guy he is. He's great to me. But what the heck do I do???????????????????????????
What a delema
Pray for the best and decline the other team. nicely???
Anyone in Calif. or Az. have a spot for a really hard working kid?? LOL I'm ready
Signed tired of the snow.
I know spell check sorry
1st. Coaches I am not a parent that looks threw rose colored glasses, I can tell a apple from an orange and when my kids are the orange. I told myself I will not be, "one of those parents" a long time ago. You know the type I'm talking about. I have been the G.M. and assested the last 2 years on my older 14 then 15u dd's team. So I do know what you go threw.
2nd If you are a coach please note in your reply.
3rd. I have a just turned, 13 and 2 mo. old dd. She did not make the team she wanted. She was however invited to run with all winter practices and the team.
This team is elite, one of top in the state, she played last year with the same org. different team and coach. She has played elite 3 years, till now.
New Coach loves her. His question to her last week wile I'm standing there talking to him and she walked up was, "Where THE HECK were you at tryouts"? (she did not "sell herself", "thought she was a auto" she was there and he knew of her at that point, we have knowen the family for years)
This is where the plot thickens.
dd has been invited to play with several other teams. She is crazzy competive and a mid 2 threw 5 on any team (she started in fall-ball with the varsty HS team at 3rd and short, batted 3, 4 or 5 every game) ok I'm going to say it, she not a bad ball player, there I said it, sorry I slipped a little theres those glasses, LOL. Anyway, I see it, the few teams she has gone to a practice with just aren't at the same level. There is one 14u that will play some good ball this year. They want her to play in a tourney in less than 2 weeks then make her decission. Sight unseen by them. I scout the practices b-4 hand.
The team that she wanted and is practicing with has had a girl move and there is a spot now open. Practices are to run till end of march.
Now if she plays in 2 weeks and then the team she wants, coach finally gets around to asking her to join them, she at that point will be not able to play in any asa tourney's and he will not take her. Can't blame him. BUT.
Do you have your watters on, it about to get deeper?
Now the question, do I try to explain to the coach and ask I he is going to take her?? The feeling and only a feeling, (many in the Orgnization as well) is she's on the team, yet not been ask. this is feeling we even get from him too.
See there is the problem then I become "that parent". This will probley black list me and maybe my kid??
Note, the coach and I are cool because I'm not that parent like many others he has. And he tells me about them all the time, he comes to me!! Wile stepping on people to talk to me. He has a way about him. Everyone knows if you are in his circle and if your not. That type of guy he is. He's great to me. But what the heck do I do???????????????????????????
What a delema
Pray for the best and decline the other team. nicely???
Anyone in Calif. or Az. have a spot for a really hard working kid?? LOL I'm ready
Signed tired of the snow.
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