I coach and officiate another sport (in addition to coaching softball). Have been doing both for many years. My policy is that if I am coaching and I see a wrong call made, I quietly give my opinion and ask the official to check the rule when he/she gets home. I always say "You might be right, but I don't think so. Let's both be sure for next time." I make it clear that I am on their side and just want the right call made in the future. That goes a long way toward everyone leaving the field in a good mood. If it's a judgement call, unless positioning is bad, there is nothing to be done and it's rarely worth saying anything. There is nothing gained by making a production of it or trying to get a call changed. Just make sure the official/umpire is paying attention and doing his/her best. A wrong call or two is not the end of the world, especially on a 12u level. No one is playing for money or scholarships at that point, and the landfills are full of 12u trophies discarded by young adults.We are a 12u small town rec team, so most of the umpires are locals. Last night we played a team with a new coach and an umpire who obviously didn't know all the rules. We had a batter get hit in the ankle by a pitched ball that hit the ground first. The ump said since it hit the ground first she didn't get to take a base. I know that she should've been awarded 1st base, and told the umpire. He insisted so I said ask the other coach. He was new and didn't know. We were visitors and several people in the stands insisted the ump was right. I didn't pursue the issue but I did tell the other coach after the game that he needs to look up the rule and inform his umpire. The batter was hit again in the same at bat only this time in the ribs, which hurt a lot more than the other one. How should this have been handled?