"we'll get 6-run ruled often due to walks" Ouch....So let's see. Three walks to load the bases. Fourth walk scores the first run. So we are talking about 10 walks an inning if I did that correctly. REC league is there to teach people how to play. This is not teaching anyone anything, other than how to be bored.
Not just walks, but SBs, and D3Ks, too, according to the OP. All of these are (I would imagine) largely due to the P's struggles with control.
brewfanks - The point of all of this is that putting more focus on your DD's control will be the most effective way to help her be more successful - now, and in the future.