I'd be curious to know if the those coaches that don't "allow" their players to guest-play for another team have any issue with using guest-players themselves when needed?
When I was coaching TB, we never said no when one of our girls was asked to guest-play. We definitely wanted to know know when it was happening, and obviously it couldn't conflict with our own schedule, but other than that go get the reps! We also knew that we would find ourselves in need of adding a guest player or two to our roster on occasion...would be a bit hypocritical to not allow our players to do it while we used guest-players.
When I was coaching TB, we never said no when one of our girls was asked to guest-play. We definitely wanted to know know when it was happening, and obviously it couldn't conflict with our own schedule, but other than that go get the reps! We also knew that we would find ourselves in need of adding a guest player or two to our roster on occasion...would be a bit hypocritical to not allow our players to do it while we used guest-players.