I feel the same way about my daughter. I think she's thinking that it sounds fun to do something different, hang out with kids who aren't softball players and maybe get a summer job. There is also now a boyfriend in the mix and I think that's also factoring into her decision. And that's all...
That's exactly what our plan is for the summer. Visit some places over the summer as spectators and dial it down for a change, see what happens. And you're right, putting her first is the important thing.
She did not get much interest from scouts after playing in showcases all summer and that may have a lot to do with her being discouraged. I did try to tell her that pitching speed was not as important as movement, etc., but I don't think she was/is convinced. Also, she was the youngest player on...
I think you are right when you say the exposure team may have been a bit overwhelming for her. She has said she wouldn't mind guest playing with teams over the summer if needed, so I almost think she wants to play the game without the pressure of trying to attract a college scout's attention.
She did not get much interest from scouts after playing in showcases all summer and that may have a lot to do with her being discouraged. I did try to tell her that pitching speed was not as important as movement, etc., but I don't think she was/is convinced. Also, she was the youngest player...
I'm a softball mom and this is my first post. My daughter will be 16 in two months. Recently, she told my husband and I she no longer wants to play travel softball and I guess I'm still a little bit in shock. She's has pitched since 10U. She has basically lived, eaten and breathed softball...