I do understand the sarcastic answers to a degree, but all of us who have been a pitcher's dad have seen innings/games in which our pitcher did the job she wanted to do (induce easy pop-ups, weak ground balls, etc) but the plays didn't get made behind her. Obviously, they aren't perfect pitchers either, but there does come a point when you have to decide if ability of the team to make a play is equal to the ability of the pitcher. It gets tough as a coach (or as a dad) to explain why it takes 5 or 6 plays that should be outs in order to get 3. All you can really do for the pitcher is continue to encourage her and let her know that she's doing what you want her to do and that it will pay off soon enough.