Exactly. And the complaining about vilified men is because when your position of privilege starts to shift to a more equal distribution, no matter how unequal that still is, it can feel like you're being vilified or discriminated against. Women have been at a huge disadvantage when it comes to reporting sexual assault or misconduct for longer than I have been alive. Victims are so ripped apart during the process, that a false accusation is rare. I have no idea if this coach did something wrong or didn't, but if they gave him his own microwave and he still kept coming into the players' locker room, that says a lot to me. They even told him to send a female staff member if there was something he really needed in there, and he still kept going in. Maybe that didn't bother all the players, but it obviously bothered some of them. It would bother me, either as a player or the parent of one. They tried to address it internally. It did not work. What else should they do?
Also, maybe they're lying. It does happen. And in the cases when someone is lying (Duke lacrosse is always brought up), the lies unravel pretty quickly.
I think it's fair and prudent to wait until the story plays out. There's a pretty wide gulf between "He did this all the time even after we asked him to stop" and "No, none of this ever happened." I don't think it'll be too difficult to get to the truth. This is not a case of a single questionable incident where it's he said/she said.