You stated clearly that your daughter "hasn't had enough live pitching situations".
You followed up with excuses ... e.g., no pitching machine, only a few at-bats during team practices, spending time pitching at the expense of hitting, work constraints, etc..
Life is about the choices and the scarifies you make or don't make. You stated clearly that your daughter doesn't face enough pitching situations. You were wise enough to recognize that your daughter's team practice, like most team practices, doesn't provide enough at-bats to become proficient. Seems like you walked yourself dangerously close to getting yourself involved and pitching to your daughter. Unfortunately you are too busy to put in the extra effort and set a good example for your daughter. In a nutshell, that is part of the message behind youth sports. She's not getting involved in youth sports to become a pro softball player. More it's about learning that she has control of her life ... that her focused extra efforts improve her chances of success in life ... that success in life doesn't come easy, and often it comes down to putting in extra effort to succeed, and not expecting success to come simply from attending practices. It comes from putting in extra effort ... show her the way ... or don't show her the way ... it's your choice as the parent.
In a subsequent post you wrote that you were "looking more for ideas of how to help her practice more than changing the swing for now." One way to do that is to pitch to her.
Wow - I guess I should have been more specific about my involvement with my daughter and the situation that has arisen with my work constraints! I spend time every day with her pitching, taking to practice, taking to pitching coach, taking to swing coach, taking to tournaments, taking to camps in the summer. I do pitch to her in the retention area in our neighborhood. I do take her to pitching machine batting cages. I've taken her to a different swing coach in order to see if that would help. I also have 3 other daughters one who plays competitive soccer, the other two (ages 7 and 9) are just getting into softball after having played soccer for a couple of seasons.
What I am looking for is things other than what I do already that may be a better option that others on this board have done and seen improvement. The first few responses were great and I'm thankful for them. She just read the article, which got her (on her own) to take a tee out to the driveway and hit 3 buckets of balls into the net. She videoed them and sent them to me from her ipod. We are now going over what she did and planning what do do next. We'll get her hitting again soon. Thanks for the reply and I'll try to do a better job at explaining myself in my posts!