- Oct 25, 2009
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One idea that I read of a while back is to try to get her to role play. In other words, get her to pretend to be what you want her to be.
The example I read was Julia Roberts acting. As an actress she can cry even though she's not sad; she can show anger when she's not angry; etc.
Ask your player to act like she's aggressive when she plays. Act like she thinks a Caitlin Lowe would act. Act like she thinks her Mom would act in competition. Do that often enough you become that.
We had a kid in 10U basketball that was VERY polite and gentle. We had her intentionally fouling (by taking the ball) one game; we never had an issue with aggressiveness again.
The example I read was Julia Roberts acting. As an actress she can cry even though she's not sad; she can show anger when she's not angry; etc.
Ask your player to act like she's aggressive when she plays. Act like she thinks a Caitlin Lowe would act. Act like she thinks her Mom would act in competition. Do that often enough you become that.
We had a kid in 10U basketball that was VERY polite and gentle. We had her intentionally fouling (by taking the ball) one game; we never had an issue with aggressiveness again.