Short version: Yes you were wrong. However if the coaches are not coaching they are wrong as well.
If you want to coach then coach. Don't sit in the stands or stand by the fence and coach. If you don't like what the coaches are doing then either find new coaches or volunteer to coach yourself (sounds like the team could use an outfield coach).
Our parents/spectators are allowed to cheer and support. Once a player enters the dugout they are the coaches to instruct. Injury is the only time they are allowed in the dugout/direct to the player. Want to get your DD a water? Give the water to a coach and he will handle it. She needs a water - she tells a coach to go ask her parent for one. We have everything they need in the dugout including playing advice. This is our written rule - it is very, very clear.
The comments here on talking to coaches outside the game or talking to your DD on how to improve her game AWAY from the team are all good. And it should start with asking 'What are your coaches telling you to do?'
I'd be furious if I saw a parent moving an outfielder - but then our outfielders are moving a fair amount themselves based on how they see the batter and then the coaching staff is moving the outfielders as well when needed so our outfield is pretty active.
If you want to coach then coach. Don't sit in the stands or stand by the fence and coach. If you don't like what the coaches are doing then either find new coaches or volunteer to coach yourself (sounds like the team could use an outfield coach).
Our parents/spectators are allowed to cheer and support. Once a player enters the dugout they are the coaches to instruct. Injury is the only time they are allowed in the dugout/direct to the player. Want to get your DD a water? Give the water to a coach and he will handle it. She needs a water - she tells a coach to go ask her parent for one. We have everything they need in the dugout including playing advice. This is our written rule - it is very, very clear.
The comments here on talking to coaches outside the game or talking to your DD on how to improve her game AWAY from the team are all good. And it should start with asking 'What are your coaches telling you to do?'
I'd be furious if I saw a parent moving an outfielder - but then our outfielders are moving a fair amount themselves based on how they see the batter and then the coaching staff is moving the outfielders as well when needed so our outfield is pretty active.