Parents should definitely avoid interjecting themselves while the coach and DD are engaged with each other. At appropriate times, an alternative to asking the coach a question directly is to ask/remind their DD about a question they planned on asking.Parents should engage in parts of the conversation....just avoid jumping in and answering questions directed to your DD. There are a lot of "helicopter" parents out there.....try not to be one of them!There's really nothing wrong w/ parents asking a few questions here and there. It's not taboo. But since so many parents fail to grasp their role (ie, it's the kid being recruited, not the parents), I can certainly appreciate the advice of silence.
Parents should focus on supporting their DD in the process. Their behavior should be geared to make their DD feel as comfortable as possible - definitely avoid triggering a negative response from them.