- Jan 3, 2014
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My DD was "that kid" this weekend and I don't know how to handle it. For the second time this Summer, she's let her emotions get the better of her. She's a super competitive kid in everything she does, whether it's school or sports. She is a 2nd year 12U playing up at 14U on a decent club team, batting third (maybe not for long), playing nearly every inning in the field. Normally catches, but a recent injury keeps her from playing there.
In the early rounds of the tournament she made the play every time she had an opportunity. She had two clutch hits in an early pool game, one to tie the game with two outs in the bottom of the last inning, the other a walk off hit under International Tiebreaker. As the tournament went on her hitting dropped off. On Sunday she went 0-7 and made an error at second base that let in the other teams only run of the game. (She did have an RBI, and hit the ball hard a couple times for outs, moved runners over a time or two... so it wasn't ALL bad.)
Here's the thing. Everybody knows you can't be perfect all the time, except her I guess. She had the defeatist attitude, I could see it in her body language. She was crying in the dugout, acting like a spoiled little brat. Her team WON the tournament and she couldn't be happy for her team. All she could think about was herself and not playing perfectly. Honestly, it was embarrassing to watch. It was a long, silent hour and a half drive home.
How do you deal with this?
In the early rounds of the tournament she made the play every time she had an opportunity. She had two clutch hits in an early pool game, one to tie the game with two outs in the bottom of the last inning, the other a walk off hit under International Tiebreaker. As the tournament went on her hitting dropped off. On Sunday she went 0-7 and made an error at second base that let in the other teams only run of the game. (She did have an RBI, and hit the ball hard a couple times for outs, moved runners over a time or two... so it wasn't ALL bad.)
Here's the thing. Everybody knows you can't be perfect all the time, except her I guess. She had the defeatist attitude, I could see it in her body language. She was crying in the dugout, acting like a spoiled little brat. Her team WON the tournament and she couldn't be happy for her team. All she could think about was herself and not playing perfectly. Honestly, it was embarrassing to watch. It was a long, silent hour and a half drive home.
How do you deal with this?
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