I think it would be a better question for parents who's kids tried to pitch, took lessons, worked on their own, but never quite made it as a pitcher. there are plenty. its a lot of extra work and $$. my DD is 16. 5'-2", 125lbs. she pitches in HS and TB but I don't know that she will be able to pitch in college. she hasn't hit 60 yet, but she is smart and has good movement. she loves the game, plays every position well but yeah, I guess I would do it again.
If pitching is your DDs passion there is a school that wants her. It may not be Tim Walton at FL, but someone will.