I just recently discovered this forum and I am excited to see all the great advice and knowledge exchanged here. I could use some advice from you parents of HS / College bound players about how to best support my 16YO DD. She has always enjoyed the game and has been successful playing up. Not a superstar but a hard worker and consistent performer.
DD always did well at Rec ball and always moved up early. We were a little slow getting into the TB scene. She played B level travel ball for the last several years. She was successful and had fun but did not win a lot of games. She made the High School JV team as a Freshman and intends to make the V team this spring as a Sophomore. She gets frustrated when she sees other girls not taking it seriously or not working as hard as she is. She wanted to see if she could hang at the next level. This fall DD went out for the local 18U team, not expecting to make the team, just mainly for the tryout experience. This team competes successfully in regional and national tourneys. She was placed on their 16U feeder team - 2013 is her last season for 16U eligibility.
DD is a little intimidated on this new squad. Compared to the other girls her skills are more raw, but this was not a surprise. The coach told her when he selected her that she was raw but he saw coachability. She would be the #3 catcher and would have to share playtime. In the recent fall tryout tourney she initially struggled, but as the weekend progressed she did well. This is a very successful team. They won the whole tourney. This was my daughters first tourney trophy in 4 years of travel ball and she was thrilled.
Now we're in the doldrums of the off season in the northeast. She is in the middle of her Sophmore year and we are a little behind schedule in looking at colleges. DD said for the past couple years that she would like to play ball in college, but now she is struggling with self confidence issues after recent events.
I don't care if she plays or not. In the car on the way home from games she talks about how much she loves it. I want her to do this because it's what she wants, not what I want. I'm trying to give her the time and space to make these decisions on her own. But I also know that 16yo girls don't always know what they want, and that she's running out of time to communicate with colleges/coaches, etc. I am trying to figure out how hard to push and which battles to pick. The thread about recruiting advice and D1/D2,D3 schools was very insightful.
I guess I'm looking for a pep talk myself. Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance!
DD always did well at Rec ball and always moved up early. We were a little slow getting into the TB scene. She played B level travel ball for the last several years. She was successful and had fun but did not win a lot of games. She made the High School JV team as a Freshman and intends to make the V team this spring as a Sophomore. She gets frustrated when she sees other girls not taking it seriously or not working as hard as she is. She wanted to see if she could hang at the next level. This fall DD went out for the local 18U team, not expecting to make the team, just mainly for the tryout experience. This team competes successfully in regional and national tourneys. She was placed on their 16U feeder team - 2013 is her last season for 16U eligibility.
DD is a little intimidated on this new squad. Compared to the other girls her skills are more raw, but this was not a surprise. The coach told her when he selected her that she was raw but he saw coachability. She would be the #3 catcher and would have to share playtime. In the recent fall tryout tourney she initially struggled, but as the weekend progressed she did well. This is a very successful team. They won the whole tourney. This was my daughters first tourney trophy in 4 years of travel ball and she was thrilled.
Now we're in the doldrums of the off season in the northeast. She is in the middle of her Sophmore year and we are a little behind schedule in looking at colleges. DD said for the past couple years that she would like to play ball in college, but now she is struggling with self confidence issues after recent events.
I don't care if she plays or not. In the car on the way home from games she talks about how much she loves it. I want her to do this because it's what she wants, not what I want. I'm trying to give her the time and space to make these decisions on her own. But I also know that 16yo girls don't always know what they want, and that she's running out of time to communicate with colleges/coaches, etc. I am trying to figure out how hard to push and which battles to pick. The thread about recruiting advice and D1/D2,D3 schools was very insightful.
I guess I'm looking for a pep talk myself. Any advice or suggestions? Thanks in advance!