- Feb 3, 2011
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I'm not at my wits' end, but I'm in the vicinity.
DD has been on a pretty solid team for a few years. She's been given numerous opportunities in the best sense of the word to develop her overall game. She can legitimately play all 9 positions competently and has played C, 3B, and OF at the 'A' level. On her current team, she has received ample playing time at each of those 3 positions. Her coach has kept her in the lineup, even during pretty long slumps at the plate, because she has a penchant for driving in runs in tight games with 2 outs.
Her mother now believes I'm holding her back. "Why can't she learn to play SS??" she asked. I love my daughter's game. She plays hard, plays smart, and is a terrific teammate. When she makes errors, she comes to me that evening or within the next couple of days and asks what she may have done differently on a given play. She never makes excuses about the ball getting lost in the lights or her glove letting her down. She owns her errors, which is good, but she can also take them pretty hard in the moment, especially if the team doesn't get a good result and she believes it was all her fault. Helping her team succeed is important to her.
BUT - and this is simply one dad's opinion based on observation of other talent players out there - I don't think her game translates to being an exceptional SS at this level. She has a quick glove at 3B, but doesn't have the same type of explosiveness on her feet that the best middle infielders have. I do believe that young athletes can improve their agility and develop explosiveness, but that's something they need to commit to doing if it's not natural.
What I've seen from the best teams out there is that most players will have a primary position and then get a few innings at a secondary position. Am I wrong in saying that we should not be encouraging her to try to add a 4th position to her rotation? And to be clear, it's not the player asking for this. It's the parent pushing it. If she was batting .600 or even .400 with lightning speed, maybe I could envision the possibility of being recruited as a utility player, but those situations seem pretty uncommon.
Note: The player is 14u (2020) and hopes to play at a large school. She would like to be an OF in college, but believes being a catcher may help her in the scholarship game.
I'm not at my wits' end, but I'm in the vicinity.
DD has been on a pretty solid team for a few years. She's been given numerous opportunities in the best sense of the word to develop her overall game. She can legitimately play all 9 positions competently and has played C, 3B, and OF at the 'A' level. On her current team, she has received ample playing time at each of those 3 positions. Her coach has kept her in the lineup, even during pretty long slumps at the plate, because she has a penchant for driving in runs in tight games with 2 outs.
Her mother now believes I'm holding her back. "Why can't she learn to play SS??" she asked. I love my daughter's game. She plays hard, plays smart, and is a terrific teammate. When she makes errors, she comes to me that evening or within the next couple of days and asks what she may have done differently on a given play. She never makes excuses about the ball getting lost in the lights or her glove letting her down. She owns her errors, which is good, but she can also take them pretty hard in the moment, especially if the team doesn't get a good result and she believes it was all her fault. Helping her team succeed is important to her.
BUT - and this is simply one dad's opinion based on observation of other talent players out there - I don't think her game translates to being an exceptional SS at this level. She has a quick glove at 3B, but doesn't have the same type of explosiveness on her feet that the best middle infielders have. I do believe that young athletes can improve their agility and develop explosiveness, but that's something they need to commit to doing if it's not natural.
What I've seen from the best teams out there is that most players will have a primary position and then get a few innings at a secondary position. Am I wrong in saying that we should not be encouraging her to try to add a 4th position to her rotation? And to be clear, it's not the player asking for this. It's the parent pushing it. If she was batting .600 or even .400 with lightning speed, maybe I could envision the possibility of being recruited as a utility player, but those situations seem pretty uncommon.
Note: The player is 14u (2020) and hopes to play at a large school. She would like to be an OF in college, but believes being a catcher may help her in the scholarship game.