- May 21, 2012
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My DD played up this year on the 12u town TB team. It was my understanding that the head coach’s DD also pitches and time would be split up to give my DD the experience/challenge they thought she needed. We explained to my DD that this is a great opportunity for her to learn a second position because she is ALWAYS thrown in as the pitcher and has never had the opportunity to learn any other position. She was excited for the challenge and looking forward to the breaks.
Well, the HC’s daughter got a concussion at the beginning of the session and was not able to play. This required my DD to dig deep and pitch the entire season as well as two tournaments with back to back games. She did her best and one small fun tournament, they placed 2nd. The team as a whole only lost 3 games basically due to errors. On the second to last game, the HC’s daughter pitched two innings and did ok. Now we come to the play-offs and the HC starts her daughter pitching while throwing my daughter on 1st. Well, she gave up 5 runs in 3 innings and then my DD was put in to pitch. The top of the batting order couldn’t hit off my DD because of the movement on the ball… I’m proud to say she only gave up one run in 2 innings but it wasn’t enough due to the HC’s daughter walking so many girls… We lost 6-5 and the season is now over.
Do I have a right to be upset as to what she did to my daughter? Or am I just being a selfish mom who would have liked to have seen my daughter continue being the starting pitcher? My daughter is handling it much better than me. She was upset at first but is moving forward.
It’s my understanding that HC’s daughter pitches slightly faster but is wild and is 2 years older. My DD has a lot of movement on her ball as well as a screwball, dropball and keeps her pitches LOW… I’m not saying my DD is better – just they both have their strengths…
Well, the HC’s daughter got a concussion at the beginning of the session and was not able to play. This required my DD to dig deep and pitch the entire season as well as two tournaments with back to back games. She did her best and one small fun tournament, they placed 2nd. The team as a whole only lost 3 games basically due to errors. On the second to last game, the HC’s daughter pitched two innings and did ok. Now we come to the play-offs and the HC starts her daughter pitching while throwing my daughter on 1st. Well, she gave up 5 runs in 3 innings and then my DD was put in to pitch. The top of the batting order couldn’t hit off my DD because of the movement on the ball… I’m proud to say she only gave up one run in 2 innings but it wasn’t enough due to the HC’s daughter walking so many girls… We lost 6-5 and the season is now over.
Do I have a right to be upset as to what she did to my daughter? Or am I just being a selfish mom who would have liked to have seen my daughter continue being the starting pitcher? My daughter is handling it much better than me. She was upset at first but is moving forward.
It’s my understanding that HC’s daughter pitches slightly faster but is wild and is 2 years older. My DD has a lot of movement on her ball as well as a screwball, dropball and keeps her pitches LOW… I’m not saying my DD is better – just they both have their strengths…