I agree with you redhotcoach! Have the same little demon in my head! Great post. I coach a 12U team along with my DD playing on the team and she is a 10 year old and as tall as a 14 year old. So I have it double hard! My DD give 110% all of the time weather practicing on the field or off the field practicing at home pitching or hitting into the batting cage. So last weeks game we totally got it handed to us 0 to 15! Never in my coaching years have I had my team show up and not play hard, and get spanked like that. I had 4 out of my 12 girls play hard. I tried everything the get them into the game. After the games are over I have a short team meeting with the girls just my AC, Me and the team ask how they feel, how they did and what not. Well this week I was at such a loss for words, I told my team at the after game meeting "see you tomorrow night at practice" and that was all I could say. Parents even said that was the best thing I could have said to the girls that night. DD and I got in the truck to come home and the "water works" started without me even saying anything. So I calmly asked her what was the matter and you would of thought her whole word crashed down on her. All she could say is " I am the youngest on the team and I try my hardest every day all the time why don't everyone else?" All I could say to her was I was proud of the way she pitched and hit and fielded, just had to tell her to keep up the good work and to be proud and hold her head up high. After talking while on the way home she settled down and the water works stopped and she got real quiet. We got home and was unloading the gear she stopped and said "Dad the important thing is I play because I love the game, and the other part I get to see you smile and cheer me on when I give my best!" "And mom to" As a 10 year old saying that makes me think they grow up way to fast! Made me a very proud dad and coach that night!
Very great posts by everyone!
Thanks from Idaho! !
Very great posts by everyone!
Thanks from Idaho! !