Greetings,
My latest dilemma.....
I am the primary organizer of several teams that compete in a regional league. Part of my responsibility is to get coaching for our teams. Last year, we had a Mother & Daughter duo that stepped in and filled a void where there was no coach for our 13 & 14 year olds. This duo has played hard on the travel team circuit in the past and for the most part are very serious about the game. They are tough on the girls. At least 2, possibly 3 of the girls were driven to tears by yelling and "tough love" - for lack of a better term.
My DD played for them and told me that it wasn't so much fun and she felt like she didn't learn anything. This coaching duo is a strong contrast to our usual casual rec league volunteer Dad coaches. So on the flipside, there were parents who liked them for being tougher than what the girls were use to (i.e., running laps after the game, etc.)
My dilemma is that I might have a GREAT alternative Coach (former D1 Pitcher) to my yelling Mother/Daughter duo (mom being the really irritating one) but I have already discussed or offered the coaching spot to them starting this summer. Furthermore, my DD2 will be playing for them this year.
As a parent and program director, I am not sure what I should do here. Go with my Great alternate Coach or keep my Yelling & Serious Coach Duo that has already agreed to coach.
Any Thoughts?....Suggestions? Please share.
My latest dilemma.....
I am the primary organizer of several teams that compete in a regional league. Part of my responsibility is to get coaching for our teams. Last year, we had a Mother & Daughter duo that stepped in and filled a void where there was no coach for our 13 & 14 year olds. This duo has played hard on the travel team circuit in the past and for the most part are very serious about the game. They are tough on the girls. At least 2, possibly 3 of the girls were driven to tears by yelling and "tough love" - for lack of a better term.
My DD played for them and told me that it wasn't so much fun and she felt like she didn't learn anything. This coaching duo is a strong contrast to our usual casual rec league volunteer Dad coaches. So on the flipside, there were parents who liked them for being tougher than what the girls were use to (i.e., running laps after the game, etc.)
My dilemma is that I might have a GREAT alternative Coach (former D1 Pitcher) to my yelling Mother/Daughter duo (mom being the really irritating one) but I have already discussed or offered the coaching spot to them starting this summer. Furthermore, my DD2 will be playing for them this year.
As a parent and program director, I am not sure what I should do here. Go with my Great alternate Coach or keep my Yelling & Serious Coach Duo that has already agreed to coach.
Any Thoughts?....Suggestions? Please share.
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