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As the recruiter coordinator for a team in Texas, you can tell the difference between a family that is owning the process and the families that don't do anything. If a kid can't give me a list of schools that they are targeting, I can't help them. They think they will be recruited by just showing up to the showcases. I have no idea what is a good fit for the family. I tell them, it's very difficult to steer a parked car! If I have a list to work with, we can start talking about each school and why they think they want to go there and if they would be a good fit for that program. I know a kid that went to a Major D1 camp recently 5 states away. She say she wants to be a teacher. Why would you want to go to an engineering school to be a teacher when there are lots of mid majors in their back yard at half the cost?
If players are not reaching out to the coaches via email, snail mail, post cards, phone calls, smoke signals,etc they will have no idea the player has interest. And they wonder why XXX player verballed and they didn't...even if they are a better player! Players have to LOVE the game in order to play in college. Many players just think they want to play in college until they have to do the work once they get there.
The "my kid got a full ride" to XYZ D1 school is the biggest myth out there. Uh...your kid plays first base! When there is a roster of over 20, how is that possible? Yes, it can happen, but that is a rare feat. Hey parent, it's okay to say my kid's tuition is paid 100%, but room and board is on me. Or my kid got 50% athletic, 50% (academic, non disclosed special scholly, housing scholly, etc). I find it so weird that I run into all these kids that have full rides yet, no coaches have money! lol! If someone tells you about their kid's full ride, stop the conversation and get clarification.
My kid goes to a D3 and non softball parents assume that she got a full ride. I stop them immediately, and tell that D3's don't offer athletic monies, however she earned an private outside scholly that pays for 70% of her tuition. The rest is on me! And I take pride in the fact that I saved enough money in her 529 plan to bridge the gap.
Congrats on this! You should take pride in that! And every parent out there that is spending thousands of dollars a year on the next Rachel Garcia, should make sure some of that money is going into their 529 as Plan B, and make sure the academics are there for potential academic scholarship opportunities, and, let's face it, to support her for the res of her life when SB is over.
I remember back in the 14U days a really talented team that went pretty deep in ASA Nationals(135 teams) had a bunch very good players who I thought would be going to big time schools. Fast forward to now, many of those players got flushed out and no longer play. Several are playing at some mid majors, some D3's, one committed to an SEC team but then quit altogether her JR year(btw...didn't even start on her HS team). Don't worry about 12U/14U teams and burning them out. It's a game of who is left standing! And it continues into college. Just keep getting better and keep it fun and interesting. The rest will sort itself out.
When either of these stop, it's time to get out of the game.
So, @Orange Socks, as we go through the process, I was left wondering if it is a good idea to contact the coaches of the schools she is interested in?Here are basic Truths in Recruiting:
That's enough for now.
- Contact Coaches
- Attend Camps
- Contact Coaches
- Find the right fit
- Contact Coaches
- ACT/SAT Early
- Contact Coaches
- Test prep(private tutor or class)
- Contact Coaches
- Find the best team that you can start on
- Contact Coaches
- Engage with your team's recruiting coordinator
- Contact Coaches
- Get on campus/tours
- And don't forget to Contact Coaches