i appreciate the feedback,i will have a talk with her. i know if she wants to pitch at high school and beyond she has to make a decision to give more. i know she has talent, she has had success and failure in the past, i just need her to decide if its what she wants to do because i dont want to waste her time and mine if she doesn't enjoy it. she played on a 12u team last year and will be on a 14u team and rec this year but she is the 3rd pitcher, she has control issues from lack of practice and then gets down on herself,but when she is on she is unhitable so as a dad i see the positives. she also plays first and is a good hitter so maybe we will just stick with that.girls