I feel sorry for his DD. If it were my DD, she would be MORTIFIED that we interfered. She has been taught that playing time is earned and "practices" are "tryouts" where 100% effort is required. It is also a good lesson for parents to see that not all coaches "view" their kids in the same light, and that life isn't always "fair". To play a team sport requires doing whatever the coach thinks is best for the team (within safety guidelines, of course), and help out wherever needed. A kid with a great attitude and work ethic can go a long way - just as a bad parent can ruin a child's chances of success.